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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:31

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What is the story of how you met your spouse?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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What I need from you?

Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.